Recently I have heard two different accounts of disgraceful behavior towards special needs children in our school district on the part of the teachers or aides who serve them. As the mother of a special needs child about to enter kindergarten, these accounts sicken and terrify me. How do I protect my child from one of the worst kinds of evil, those who would hurt "the least of these?" How do we as a society protect our children when increasingly schools and curricula are closed to parents, when lousy (or cruel) teachers in our public schools are protected by unions and tenure? How do we find out what is really going on in our children's classrooms? These are "public" schools supported in part by our tax dollars. We as parents have every right to be inside our schools, aware of what's going on. But parents in our school district at least are told they are no longer needed or wanted to volunteer. We don't want to micromanage. We don't want to get in the way. We want to be informed! And that's the mission I'm about to embark on. I'm going to find out everything I can about the teacher and aides who will be spending six hours a day, five days a week with my precious child. If you have any suggestions about the best way to do this or any information to offer, I'm open to any and all ideas.
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I completely understand your pain. We continue to be limited. I do have a few suggestions...things I need to remember as well. Focus on what you CAN do and do it often. Keep praying. Develop any kind of relationship you can with the teachers and aides even at the risk of being annoying. I have found that squeaky wheels really do have more success. I have even been given the cell phone numbers of quite a few teachers. It's not going to be perfect all the time, but be grateful for the blessings that come along. Finally, remember that Josh has you. That is a huge blessing in itself. You care and will always actively protect him.
Your father might help. Maren had some really good ideas. Become the teacher's best friend. Donate things to the class.
I can't believe that the teachers or aides can get away with that stuff. Districts are usually afraid of lawsuits. I'm pretty sure you have a right to visit the class. They always let me even when they knew I was unhappy with a teacher but then I'm kind of scary. Better to try nice before scary.
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